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One square meter of meditation

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《 One square meter of meditation 》 It is a tranquility class customized for noisy workplaces by well-known tranquility instructors in the United States ,

Teach you in the square inch , Noise reduction for the world , Let the mind return to mindfulness .

The heart is open , Inspiration and joy go in .

《 One square meter of meditation 》 There's a principle , Have realm , More ways .

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《 One square meter of meditation 》 Reading harvest

· Build the eight pillars of the workplace , Let's be happy 、 Peace returns .

· Poetic and efficient , Reach success with a graceful gesture .

· Achieve total body and mind healing , Moving forward in warmth and peace .

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Sharon · Szczberg

Famous meditation tutor in the United States , With Jack · Confield 、 Joseph · Goodstein co founded the Neiguan meditation Club (Insight Meditation Society), So far, it has been employed for more than 30 years , Is a respected meditation instructor . She not only wrote many best sellers , He also served as 《 Oprah 》《 Time 》《 Good housekeeper 》《 Shambhala sun 》 And other well-known magazines . The author of 《 Practice of meditation 》《 Don't kidnap yourself 》 Such as books .

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preface : You are in the workplace , Happy? ?

For many people , Working life is a punishment , An evil of life that must be endured . For them , Step over the threshold of the workplace every day , Began to suffer .

Especially in recent years , With the rapid development of mobile Internet , Massive amounts of information flow in and “ Always online ” Working mode of left and right attack , It also extends this workplace stress and anxiety to more corners of life , Even cover every pore . People seem to be patients who can't breathe fresh air , Too heavy .

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Many people are more and more deeply aware of the eight problems :

  1. Life has been mixed with work , There seems to be no such thing as getting off work .

  2. Doing it A I always think about the task B Something or C Event or D Friends or E The restaurant .

  3. Actually, I hate some colleagues very much , Even secretly hate them without style , But I have to be with them .

  4. Immersed in deep depression , Often feel physically and mentally exhausted .

  5. It seems that everyone is far away , Everything is business .

  6. Often unsure whether something should be done , Wavering in morality 、 law 、 ethic 、 Between interests .

  7. To work 、 To self 、 For the future 、 Full of doubts about the difficulties faced .

  8. I feel the same day after day , There is nothing new under the sun , Work is just making a living .

At first glance, it seems to be true “ It's not worth it ”, But when we really open our awareness , You will find that many troubles are just emotional troubles caused by obsession . Although the workplace is full of challenges , But man always has the final power of interpretation , Meditation full of mindfulness is the greatest weapon for people to fight against emotional troubles .

The effectiveness of mindfulness does not depend on the change of things , It counteracts the negative effects of stress on body and emotion by changing the relationship between people and things .

Mindfulness meditation builds the eight pillars of the workplace , Help us transform our troubles 、 Arrive happy . They are : equilibrium 、 focus 、 compassion 、 elastic 、 Communication and connection 、 integrity 、 significance 、 Open awareness . Next , We study separately .

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equilibrium

The first pillar of workplace happiness is balance . It is the ability to separate you from who you are and what you do .

Neuroscience research has proved that , Creativity and commitment are the source of happiness . But in a stressful and demanding work environment , If there is no breathing space , The amygdala will continue to trigger primitive “ Fight or flee ” reaction , Let us repeat the narrow and primitive habitual response , Thus losing creativity , Falling into persistent depression .

Fortunately, , Emotions can be trained . When negative emotions arise , If you can live in peace with it with mindfulness , You can keep your balance .

1.RAIN Watching negative emotions

When you don't equate emotions with our own totality , You will find that your emotions keep going up and down , Rise and fall , It is not born , It's not the same . It arises from a particular situation , Come in from the outside , Like a sudden visitor .

Application RAIN Four steps , Make yourself “ witness ”, You can deal with an emotion with mindfulness .RAIN Respectively —— distinguish (Recognition)、 Accept (Acceptance)、 To explore the (Investigation) And non identification (Nonidentificaition).

First , To identify it .“ Oh , It's jealousy . It is knocking on my door .”

then , Accept it .“ Come on , Don't push it , Push it harder and harder .”

next , Explore it .“ It turned out that it was caused by a moment of anger 、 A moment of sadness 、 A moment of helplessness and a moment of panic .”

Last , Express your disapproval of it .“ You can sit at my house for a while , But I am the master here . I'm going to let you go now , Excuse me ……”

We are used to adding layers of weight when we criticize ourselves , Ashamed of fear , And angry with shame .RAIN Four steps can help us peel off layers of additional reactions , To identify it 、 Let it go , Back to the beginning , Enable reason .

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2. Set priorities , Time management

Time is one of the most important sources of workplace stress .

Usually time is not enough , But experiments and life experience have proved that , Not enough time is just an illusion closely related to subjective feelings , As the saying goes “ The night is too short for pleasure , Lonely hate longer ”. Use mindfulness , Be deeply aware of the facts , Can break the illusion , And stop the pressure cycle .

· Most of the time we get lost just because we forget what we want . here , A few simple reminders will bring you back , Be aware of time with mindfulness . For example, in the office, post such as “ calm ”“ slow ” And so on .

· Prioritize , Give proper attention to every task , It is very important to maintain balance . When judging the priority of a thing , You can ask yourself a few simple questions : Whether to do it now ? How many people are involved in this matter ? Do it now or delay it ?

· Treat time with a pragmatic attitude , One day 8 It can't be finished in hours 15 Hours of work . Define your job responsibilities , Don't deify your boss , To take or demand excessively . Ignore your own needs , It is impossible to create a happy workplace .

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3. You have the right to set boundaries at work

In a competitive workplace , Setting healthy boundaries for work can be a real challenge : Is to allow others to cross the border in order to climb up ; Or risk not being promoted 、 The risk of not getting a raise or praise , Stand firm .

Everyone has their own standards , Some don't mind being flexible , Others need to hold the line . For individuals , It is very important to be honest with your needs .

Honesty is not being coerced by external standards , Act according to your inner thoughts . As long as you can strike a balance between your own needs and choices , Whether you choose to increase the size , Or reduce the burden , You will feel the balance .

4. Create a quiet place for the soul

In the workplace , Our awareness of what is happening , Will be prejudiced 、 Accumulated habits 、 Distorted by fear and imagination . Mindfulness can help us pierce this distortion with deep awareness , State the problem in a very different way , Let's get into curiosity 、 to open up 、 A state of high spirits .

Some big companies include mindfulness training in their employee training programs , Set up a meditation room in the office . Google “Search Inside Yourself” Course experiments show that , Compared with the control group , Employees who receive mindfulness practice , The frequency of activating the relevant parts of the brain related to positive feelings has greatly increased .

You can also create a meditation space in the office , A free conference room 、 Toilets , Or a station of one square meter .

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focus

The second pillar of workplace happiness , It's focus . Concentration is the ability to concentrate .

Concentration enhances the feeling of immersion and flow , Let us regain our energy . what's more , It can help us release unhealthy internal anxiety . such as , A punitive regret for the past .“ I should have done better , At least it should be wise to shut up .”

such as , Unnecessary worries about the future ,“ The plane may be late , Then I can't catch the next flight , So it was night when I arrived in Japan . So there is no taxi to the hotel , I will miss the next day's meeting ! I will lose my job !” And such as , Some addictive tendencies .

Of course , Concentration does not mean that we should never think about the future or the past , It means that we don't have to be subject to anxious speculation or self destructive regret , It should be today , Grasp it now .

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1. a , It doesn't increase productivity

Why people today are so hard to focus , In addition to the flood of information that comes too often , It is also because people are crazy about efficiency . The media continue to strengthen the image of successful people who have several jobs and are outstanding in all aspects , Let the atmosphere of separation and skill in the workplace gradually become irresistible .

But in fact , Multitasking is nothing more than a modern apotheosis , It is also the main cause of low self-confidence and nervous tension in the workplace . Attention is not endless , The brain can only focus on one thing at a time . If you listen to music and read , In a moment , You either don't hear the music , Or I'm not reading .

The fallacy of multitasking arises , It's because attention can really switch quickly between tasks , But the result is , Each job takes longer , Overall efficiency declines . Studies have shown that , The same job , If done in a situation of repeated diversion , Need more than usual 50% Time for , The error rate will also increase 50%.

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2. Boring is because of not enough investment

Boredom is not due to lack of fun , Instead, it is caused by insufficient investment . When we focus on the present moment with all our heart , We will notice that no two moments are exactly the same . And the higher our attention to certain experiences , The details will become more charming . Concentration itself is the grace of life .

3. Quit your “ Procrastination ”

Psychologist Joseph · Ferrari pointed out , The five mindsets that lead to procrastination are :① Overestimate the remaining time .② Underestimate the complexity of the work and the time it takes .③ Overestimate the motivation to move the next day .④ Think you need to be in good shape to start .⑤ The results made when the state is mistaken as bad are unqualified .

Procrastination causes guilt , Because it goes against our best judgment , Knowing that procrastination will make things worse , But knowingly . Guilt is actually a hint of behavior correction , But guilt alone can't solve the problem . The most effective practice for getting rid of procrastination , It's about recognizing where you have problems , Then use the single focus method , Solve the problem in small orderly steps .

Artist Doreen has a serious habit of procrastination . As a freelancer , Her home is full of unfinished work , And scattered clothes , Heaped cups and plates . She spends at least... Every day 3 I spent hours in bed watching TV , To avoid the guilt of procrastination . Because there are too many things to do , Too little time , Do not know how to start . When she consulted the author , Reach a challenge agreement ,30 In the day , Only one job per day . After a month , Doreen's behavior changed a lot . This method of getting rid of procrastination , It's single point focus .

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compassion

The third pillar of workplace happiness , It's compassion . Compassion is the ability to start anew from imperfections and mistakes .

In a highly competitive culture in the workplace , Compassion has always been regarded as a second-class virtue . Only when you are not brave enough 、 When not outstanding enough , Others will praise your generosity . But in fact , Because of compassion , People are aware of the common destiny , So as to truly accept each other's imperfections , Jump out of the narrow system reaction , The whole becomes stronger 、 Stronger . Compassion means insight , This is the premise of all mindfulness exercises .

1. Judgment is a sharp blade that hinders happiness

The biggest obstacle to happiness in the workplace , Is strict 、 Negative judgments . Whether judged , Or judge others , Will build a wall between teams , Block the communication of the mind . The most popular tagging war in social media today , It is the concrete manifestation of this obstacle . The root of this behavior is often a lack of security 、 Fear and envy .

2. Magnify the good of others

A lady spoke in the author's class and said ,“ I feel that I am full of love and compassion for the omnipresent beings …… As long as I'm alone ”, Cause a lot of laughter . Yes , If strangers throw rubbish on the road , We will not hesitate to label him as unqualified . Only those you are familiar with , When someone who has been recognized by us in some way has done something wrong , We will consider him thoroughly , Defend him .

in other words , If we can find something good in others , And feel it carefully and recognize it , We think of the complexities and challenges that everyone can face , So as to hold a more tolerant view of that person .

There is a person in charge of the enterprise , Have all employees line up in two lines every day , Read a few words together :“ This man is just like me , Life is full of twists and turns . Just like me , They repent of their mistakes . Just like me , They want to be happy ”. This is to make employees understand , Even if someone's behavior is not pleasant , They are also people who want to do things right .

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3. Use the three elements of tolerance , Make yourself and others better

Many cultures seem to believe , As long as we condemn harshly 、 Treat yourself cruelly , Coupled with full introspection , Can grow from such punishment . But the fact is that when we use the three elements of tolerance : Mindfulness 、 Common humanity and kindness , When you stop blaming yourself , On the contrary, it is more acceptable 、 Transform disasters in the workplace .

Mindfulness enables us to view our own experiences more emotionally . The common humanity will let us understand , Being human means being imperfect , Suffering and want are shared experiences . Kindness allows us to treat ourselves and others with warmth and understanding .

We are not perfect , Make mistakes , But we can learn to start over .

You didn't speak at the meeting , Instead of scolding yourself severely in your heart :“ Not a word was said in the whole meeting , What a waste !”, It would be better to change the judgment into a soft whisper :“ I think keeping quiet can help me get along well with my colleagues , But I was wrong . I don't know much about them , To myself, too , I understand this now .”

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4. You don't have to rely on others' evaluation

When we build happiness on the acceptance and appreciation of others , The mood will rise and fall with it , By the biased feedback from the outside world . Everyone wants to be liked , This is a natural human response . The question is whether to pay too much attention to or neglect .

There must be many different voices in the workplace , If we regard praise as the only basis of personality , You must sacrifice what you think is right to reach consensus . It was very painful .

Be merciful to others and yourself , Be honest with the roots of your beliefs , We realize that who we are is not the same as what we are doing , The judgment of work is not the same as the true self , We're just going to do this job . This allows us to replace exclusion with an open mind , So as to listen to the really useful criticism .

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elastic

The fourth pillar of workplace happiness is flexibility , It refers to training from frustration 、 depressed 、 The ability to recover from failure , That's what we used to say about anti fragility .

The workplace is full of tension and challenges 、 Conflict 、 Frustration and the feeling of being hollowed out , But happiness in the workplace also comes from us and these obstacles 、 The ability to feel antagonism . Touch every challenge and setback with a beginner's mind , Is the essence of elasticity . When we choose not to be defeated , It becomes exercise acceptance 、 Opportunities for flexibility and patience .

1. Take care of yourself gently

Physical and mental fatigue will make people lose their elasticity , It's a state of obvious exhaustion , If you don't take good care , Lack of motivation 、 depressed 、 tired 、 Anger will roll like a snowball .

Regarding this , Many surveys show that , Strategic “ It's really lucky to recover ”, Including lunch break 、 Sleep longer 、 Leave the office for a nap and vacation , Can significantly improve efficiency and health , Increase internal elasticity .

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2. You don't have to take all the mistakes , Just start over

We have always had a misunderstanding , Think we have to treat our colleagues 、 Boss 、 Greater control over customers and work results , And therefore accumulate the blame on yourself . The truth is often , We are a small part of the overall situation , There is no ability to direct operation of the universe , Unable to stop the unexpected events that make us blame ourselves . In any event , There are many conditions 、 Influence and cause of formation are intertwined .

The author once took a taxi to a lecture site during the shift change of taxi drivers in New York . Finally, I met a driver who was willing to drive her , It didn't take long for the car to get stuck in a traffic jam . The author sat in the car worried , Both for oneself Miss speech FRET , Also worried about the driver being fined for being late for shift change . She couldn't help apologizing to the driver ,“ I apologize , Please give me a lift , But now you may be late . I didn't expect the road would be so terrible , I've never seen anything like this , I'm really sorry ……” The driver interrupted her , say :“ This lady , The traffic jam is not your fault ”. A meal , And he said ,“ It's not my fault ”.

3. Be patient and resilient at low tide

When work is difficult , It is particularly important to keep your body flexible and elastic .

2008 In the financial crisis of , There was a company that was going to lay off workers , When the president told his wife that he was going to lay off staff , His wife asked him ,“ You made this decision out of fear , Or out of love ?” He replied ,“ Fear, of course . Our orders have decreased , The market demand for outdoor clothing may plummet .” His wife asked him ,“ If it is out of love , What decisions will you make ?” He said , I will find other innovative ways to reduce expenses . He did that , Tell employees “ Listen to me , I'm not going to lose any of you , So we have to share , Be careful ”, As a result, the company has ushered in the most brilliant 4 In performance .

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4. Vent your emotions at the right time , Peace will come

Various caregivers are particularly prone to physical and mental overdraft , They will have a feeling of being overwhelmed 、 The feeling of being unable to continue helping others , This feeling is often called “ Empathy is depressed ”. Mindfulness practice is the solution to this symptom .

Neuroscientists in empathy experiments , Let some monks and some ordinary people watch the videos of the sufferers . Functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) The scan shows , The monk's mind is full of care 、 There is an increase in regional activities that nourish positive social emotions ; And those who have not practiced mindfulness , In the brain is and sadness 、 The pain - related area became active .

A girl engaged in humanitarian work in Afghanistan , After a period of work , Always have a big cry . Her colleague told her , If there is reason to cry , Crying is not an embarrassment . Timely vent their emotions , It is possible to reach peace , understand “ you 're right , I am in it , I will try to solve , But in the end, it may not be up to me .”

Communication and connection

The fifth pillar of workplace happiness is communication and connection . It is to resolve workplace conflicts , The ability not to be controlled by emotions .

In every day when people are closely intertwined , With skilled communication , Connect with colleagues , It's very important to be happy at work .

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1. Three techniques for avoiding communication mines

At work and on any other occasion , We can all use the following three principles to communicate with people skillfully .

① Is this information true ?

② Is it useful to make such communication at this time ?

③ Think about it , Are you about to say something out of kindness ?

Make sure what you say is true 、 It is very important that the timing and motivation be in line with compassion . Keep listening during the conversation , More important for the final effect .

2. Not be hurt by the culture of workplace derogation

Nowadays, derogatory culture is becoming more and more popular , Sarcasm is often regarded as humor , Be flattered . however , In a culture that belittles others , There must be a pessimistic atmosphere , The jungle rule has become a psychological model in the workplace .

As a person , Like to interact with people 、 Interact with the team , Eager to be recognized 、 Be part of a group , It is nature that has been shaped in ancient times . Many studies have shown that , How many good friends does a person have in the workplace , And how serious he would be 、 How happy you are is of great relevance .

3. Replace negative questions with positive ones

Positive questions focus on what is doing well in the organization . The traditional questioning logic is “ What happened ? Can I solve it ?” Positive questioning is about recognizing what is useful , Then decide how to remember 、 Strengthen and enlarge .

Its typical sentence pattern is :“ Where are the parts that have worked well ?”“ What do you think is the best experience ?”

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4. The ability not to be kidnapped by malicious impulse

Through mindfulness practice , We can learn a few basic principles to avoid the most common communication pitfalls .

The first is to use “ I ” Sentence pattern of . such as , When you protest , You might say “ Cynthia , You never care if someone is waiting for you to hand in your expense statement on time .” But you'd better say “ Cynthia , When I didn't receive your expense statement on time , I feel very disappointed . I had hoped to get off work early on Friday , Get together with my daughter .”

The second is the awareness of body expression . In face-to-face communication , significance 55% Through the expression 、 Gestures and gestures to convey ,38% From the tone , Only 7% From language .

Finally, remember to listen again . Listening is often more useful than talking .

in addition , Don't engage in gossip in the workplace .

5. Be careful with written communication

When we want to communicate in writing , If sent email、 Wechat and other information , Before sending , Sit down , Take three deep breaths , Then go back to the message , Start reading it . Not the content , But to see what effect the emotion has on the reader .

6. Do not let negative emotions in the workplace affect family life

Emotions are contagious , It will have ripple effect on the working environment . An intolerable colleague , Not only bad for you , It's also bad for your spouse , Even ripples will continue to the spouse's workplace . In the workplace , Such ripples happen at any time , Therefore, the change of personal awareness will bring about beyond personal effects .

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integrity

Integrity is the sixth pillar of workplace happiness , It refers to the ability to bring the deepest moral values to the workplace .

1. When your core values conflict with your work

When work conflicts with integrity , We will feel pain . But it is not easy to be yourself at work , Priorities in the workplace often conflict with personal values . The work itself will bring many conflicting requirements , Such as fierce competition , And they have to cooperate with each other .

In the mire , Someone will ask. , If it is the Buddha , What would he do ? In a moral dilemma , Think about what a spiritual mentor would do , It will help .

Sherry said , Once when she was on duty, she received an alarm , A divorced father ended his weekend visit , Refuse to return her little daughter to her ex-wife . When Sherry intervened , He threatened her . In the old police style , She would handcuff him directly , Into prison . But that day , Because I just studied with Zen master Yixing , She tried to persuade the father to let go , Instead of arresting him , And sincerely comfort him , result , The 1.9-meter-tall man leaned against the 1.6-meter-tall Sherry like a child and burst into tears . later , When she meets him again , He picked her up from behind , Shout , Thank you for saving my life .

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2. Be clear about your intentions , Don't devalue yourself

Intention should be seen as the bottom line when we measure our actions . The act of instant impulse is intention , It is also our belief and desire .

Once you sense your intention , And its corresponding value , We can see more rationally how it works in action and how the best original intention is kidnapped by the environment . such , Even if it fails , You don't have to devalue yourself .

3. When work challenges your ethics

One of the author's students works in a sushi restaurant , She was trained when guests asked about the freshness of the food , Lie to your guests . In fact, the fish is not bad , It won't make anyone sick . But some people are obsessed with whether the fish were caught that day , Of course , It's usually not that fresh . The student finally decided to tell the truth .

How do we deal with the feeling of stalemate , Will lead us to a solution . Even if it's painful , But be keenly aware of our conflicts and dilemmas , It is part of the process of open awareness .

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significance

The seventh pillar is meaning . The so-called meaning in the workplace , Is the ability to combine work with personal values .

What is work to you , A salary ? An identity ? Or the realization of a dream ? Different answers , It determines whether you can feel meaning in the workplace .

Any job can be significant , Can also be meaningless , It just depends on how you look at it .

1. Three levels of work : Work 、 career 、 summon

There is a story , We're all familiar with .“ Three workers are building a wall . Someone came to ask :‘ What are you doing? ?’ The first man said angrily :‘ Don't you see ? Build a wall .’ The second man looked up and smiled , say :‘ We are building a tall building .’ The third man hummed while working , He said happily with a smile :‘ We are building a new city !’ The story is old-fashioned , But it does vividly describe the three levels of work : Work 、 career 、 summon .

When you see work as the work you have to do to support yourself , Salary must be the biggest attraction . Then look for the so-called meaning , It seems superfluous and impractical .

When you see work as a profession , You may find satisfaction in the job itself , But will it get you a promotion 、 reputation 、 status , Is often the most valued factor .

But when you see work as a call , You are doing what you are doing out of enthusiasm , that , Whether or not it makes you rich or famous , You will feel its meaning , Because meaning is itself .

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2. Self worth cannot be equated with work

In ancient philosophy “ do ”(doing) Culture and “ yes ”(being) Cultural distinction . Today's elite education system , Obviously subordinate to “ do ”(doing) Culture , We are used to “ Where are you ” As the beginning of greetings , To identify a person by his professional role . But important and prominent positions are, after all, extremely limited , Most people face the problem of how to maintain self-esteem in a humble position .

You can remember your core intention , And put it into practice , such , You give meaning to your work . Whoever pays , I am self-employed . Although the work may not be perfect , But at least we have chosen our current job now .

When you break free “ Work or death ” This mental model , We can tap the creative potential of the situation .

Work is conditional and short-lived , Just like all Impermanence in the world . We will try our best to carry out these works , But will not be lost in these temporary roles .

3.“ Plant seeds ” meditation

Write down one thing you really want to achieve at work , List the things you can control directly in the corresponding column , Your attitude 、 The process you put into 、 Strategies and resources you can control . Then write down in another column who or what will determine the final result . When you finish writing and review this list, you will find , We are often too preoccupied with the second column , I think it's my responsibility .

These two lists , Will remind us deeply , The world is interconnected , Affecting each other . The first list reminds us “ Plant seeds ”, We must do what we should do , Otherwise nothing will grow . The second list reminds us of other forces , Keep an open mind when we try to force .

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Open awareness

The last pillar of workplace happiness is open awareness . It refers to the ability to see different possibilities without limiting themselves .

Open awareness means that we observe the situation as it is and do not feel the need to change it . Even though , It sounds passive , But you can live in the present moment and don't care if it's perfect , But the way to true happiness .

Open awareness leads to total acceptance , Total acceptance leads to the cessation of conflict , Stopping conflict leads to clarifying goals and vision , And this leads to our next skillful action .

1. From a different perspective , See different aspects of work

Emerson said , Life is not the angle of personal vision , besides , What else ?

We often hear a complaint , Is that people feel restricted by work , Make your existence more humble . But in fact , Doesn't work also open up our life ? When we initiate open awareness , The lens zooms in to accommodate a larger picture .

John's boss is both nosy and affected , John doesn't think so , Working with her every day is like sitting on pins and needles . When the wife is ill , John thought she would act heartless , As a result, the boss approved his two-month leave without saying a word . Other colleagues who often take care of themselves , I often talk to John on the phone , Cheer him up . When John returns to his post , He found that his view of things had completely changed . I used to use negative lens , Then the worst thing happened . Now? , The same boss and colleagues , But he saw another side of their personality .

Awareness is plastic , We are always choosing how to paint the truth . When you find this , No matter what the external environment is , Can take this to enter a peaceful refuge .

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2. Let go of rigidity and self imposed limitations

We don't have to invent a wrong idea to reinforce the illusion we have made , Just calm down , Keep in mind that our potential is hidden under our circumstances .

When an author encounters a bottleneck in writing a Book , She consulted a good writer , The other party's suggestion is :“ You can't keep thinking that you are the author of this book , But think of yourself as the first person to read this book .” result , The author's self struggle 、 Deliberately showing off , Have been cured .

3. Extricate oneself from the impasse

There is a fable in India : There is a kind of monkey trap that spreads sticky asphalt on the ground , As soon as the monkey stepped on the first foot, it stuck . In order to get away , The monkey put the other foot on it , Then the hands , head , Finally, the monkey was completely trapped .

We are also like this monkey , Always in the same piece of sticky between the square inch , But refused to think about innovation , So hard to pay the running water . Actually , We can look around , Reach for a branch or a nearby person , And be free . Face up to the fact that we have reached an impasse , Then seize the opportunity to make a big change .

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Conclusion

all the time , People see work as a limitation , Tired and suffering from work . A different perspective , Perhaps the problems that arise at work are not challenges or aggression , It's about unleashing potential 、 Get the invitation of wisdom .

You may be alarmed by the invitation 、 anxious , But never mind. , Sit under the eight pillars , We always have the ability to readjust and start over .

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