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Effective reading method makes reading fun
2022-06-05 03:02:12【Knowledge hall】

Everyone may have different purposes about reading , Some people do it for fun 、 Someone for the exam 、 Someone wants to improve themselves , Change life .
What we want to discuss is the last way of reading , Not for fun 、 Exam reading , This is the first point to be made clear .
Next, I will talk about reading from three aspects , They are related to reading 、 How to read efficiently 、 How to read and use .

01. Related issues
1、 You can't concentrate while reading
Many friends know that reading is good , But I just can't read it . Every time I want to concentrate on reading , I am always interrupted by various things or unconsciously brush my mobile phone .
I used to be a person who couldn't read books , Here you are 3 A small method that I have practiced is very easy to use , Recommended to you .
* Brain emptying method
Every time you want to read , All kinds of thoughts always come out of the brain , For example, if you want to inquire about an express 、 Want to see the hot news 、 Want to visit online stores ……
At this time, prepare a piece of paper at hand , Whenever you have a messy idea, write it down in the fastest way .
The goal is to tell the brain , What it wants to do is written down for the time being , Never forget , You can read at ease .
When the thoughts in your head are placed , You can read more attentively .
* Set the behavior path
The biggest time black hole in life is the mobile phone , Unable to concentrate on reading, our attention is largely occupied by mobile phones .
A more effective method is to set the behavior path , The habit you want to quit , Set the longest behavior path , Take cell phones for example , Is to put the mobile phone in an inaccessible place .
For mobile phone controls , You can buy a small box with a lock from the Internet , Lock your cell phone inside , Then put the key in an inaccessible position .
In this way, brushing the mobile phone becomes a troublesome thing , You need to move a stool and get the key from a high place , Then open the lock with the key to get the mobile phone .
If you can't quit once , Repeat a few more times , It's almost there , The brain tends to take refuge , What I fear most is trouble .
Also, if you want to form a habit , You can set the shortest behavior path .
Get into the habit of reading , Just put the book where you can reach it , By the head of the bed 、 On the desk 、 Even in the corner of the bathroom , As long as you have a place where you can be free , All eyes are on books .
* Disconnected focus
When we want to concentrate on one thing , Various messages on the mobile phone are very distracting , In addition to setting the behavior path , The disconnection method can also be used .
Set the phone to flight mode , You'll find all kinds of app Message reminders 、 The group chatted quietly , We can enjoy the quiet time when the Internet is disconnected .
Don't worry that someone can't find us ? because , Important things always contact us through various ways .
The reason why we worry about missing important information when the mobile phone is switched to flight mode , It's because I can't bear to put down the responsibility of keeping in touch with the outside world “ A sense of security ”.
2、 After reading, I can't remember
Many people are eager to remember after reading , It's a beautiful idea , But remember that reading is not the way adults learn .
stay 《 That's enough reading 》 In this book , The author Zhaozhou mentioned two ways of learning , One is knowledge centered learning , One is self-directed learning .
Knowledge centered learning is also called academic learning , Mainly for exam 、 For the purpose of obtaining certificates , This involves the problem of memory , We need to remember what we have learned in order to achieve good results .
The purpose of adult learning is to solve practical problems , Improve your skills , Then remember that knowledge is no longer the key , The key is to use knowledge .
Just like what Liu run said at the xiangxinli Conference : Our brains are for thinking, not for recording , Record things to tool software , Like impression notes .
So we need to let go of the obsession we remember , Know where the knowledge points are , It is good to retrieve it by searching .
Forgetting knowledge is not a pain point for ordinary people. It is a problem that most people have .
Author Zhou Ling in 《 About reading , This is the most complete thing I can think of at present 》 This article says :

There is also popular knowledge IP Pengxiaoliu in his book 《 Onion reading 》 When talking about his reading experience, he also mentioned :

You see , These people have the same puzzles as us .
The reason why Peng Xiaoliu could talk freely after picking up a book was that he kept reviewing .
Review here does not mean rote memorization , Instead, use the knowledge in the book in multiple scenarios , For example, after reading and writing reading notes 、 Make reading cards and share them on some platforms , You can also rely on the books you read , Write an article , Book review 、 After reading the book, you can , You can also communicate with friends , There are many forms .
All in all Instead of thinking about remembering knowledge , Think about how to use it , Put knowledge to work 、 What aspect of life , Instead of adding a number to your reading list .
3、 Reading is slow
Reading speed is also a problem that many people care about , Especially when I see people reading nearly 100 books a year , At the same time, I also want to achieve such a high reading volume .
Li Xiaolai once said : I insist that “ Reading speed ” It's a pseudo concept , In my eyes , Only “ Understand speed ”, Understanding is fast , To effectively improve the amount of reading .
Is this the truth of our fine tasting .
such as : When reading a Book , After reading, I found that the author put forward an argument that he had already deeply understood , Take another look down , The discovery argument is also what I knew before , Then this part can be safely scanned , How fast can I read like this ?
conversely , A book is full of new concepts 、 New argument , It's very hard to read , How can I get up quickly ?
We have to accept the fact that , Allow yourself to slow down for a while , To a certain extent , You will find that every book seems to talk about something you already know , The focus will also be reduced , Reading speed is also faster .
For example, I just started reading the book by Li Xiaolai 《 Make time your friend 》 It's the kind of situation where the focus is everywhere , There are a lot of lines , I feel it makes sense , Just like Grandma Liu entering the Grand View Garden , There are novelty everywhere .
But as the amount of reading increases , It will be no wonder . And there will be , This knowledge point seems to have been seen in some book .
At this point, our vision gradually increases , The cognitive blind spot gradually decreases , Just like fan Deng 《 Read a Book 》 As mentioned in : How big is your pool of understanding , You can read difficult books .
therefore Slow reading is poor comprehension , It's just that I don't read much , The comprehension ability increases, so does the reading speed , Understanding speed depends on accumulation , Read one by one , A book by book accumulation .
4、 Plunge into specific words
Before I got a book, I would read it carefully from the beginning to the end , It would be awkward not to look at it like that , A strong sense of order .
I always feel that I don't read from beginning to end , What key knowledge will be missed , I feel very uneasy .
In fact, this is a misunderstanding in reading .
We can study well 、 Reading is good , The purpose is to solve the problems we encounter , As long as the problem is solved , Is the biggest gain .
Otherwise , Think about the books you read from beginning to end , Do you still remember ? Still in use ?
This requires us Give up a small part of reading “ A sense of security ”, It's the kind of reading from beginning to end , A sense of security that won't miss anything .
Because then we can read and use , What we read is closely related to our needs , To help reduce the load on the brain , Focus on what is useful to us .
Read the interesting chapters first, just like an appetizer before a meal , It can open your desire to read , After reading the most concerned content , Other chapters may be required to assist in understanding , You will naturally look at other content .
Adjusting the way we read can help us focus more on reading and enter the state of flow , Reading becomes an interesting thing .
5、 Unreadable questions
About the problem of not understanding a Book , I think it can be divided into two cases .
One is that this book is to improve my ability , But it's a little difficult to read , We should also work harder to understand it , You can read it several times or read it from the Internet to help yourself , It's best not to jump over because it's difficult .
For example, we can find relevant introductory books to read .
It's normal to encounter books you can't read , It may not match our current reading ability , Read a book with a lower degree of difficulty , It can play an auxiliary role in understanding .
Peng Xiaoliu said that he was reading classical 《 transition 》 when , There is a chapter on systematic thinking , But he doesn't understand , I think this chapter is too difficult .
So he came to 《 The fifth discipline 》, Put the book “ Systematic thinking ” The concept of is told in five stories , Turn a difficult concept into a story . So this book became an introduction to his study of systematic thinking .
Sometimes we feel the pressure of reading may be that we don't find a book that matches our existing abilities , So you can learn from Peng Xiaoliu, starting with introductory books , With knowledge, you can conquer difficult books .
Another case is that this book is a classic book, but it is very difficult to read , You can also use the above method to read , In addition, I think we can put it aside for a while , Maybe my own accumulation and experience are not enough to understand it .
As fan Deng mentioned when he was in his twenties , Learn from others 《 Walden pond 》, As a result, I can't read any more , Read again at the age of thirty-eight , Not only can I read , And the harvest is quite abundant .
Some books really need fate , Don't worry if fate doesn't come , Patience accumulation , When you have some experience, you will understand it .
These are common in reading 5 Big problem , Only if the problem is clarified first , Change the cognition of reading from thinking , To start the correct reading Journey .

02. How to read effectively
1、 Make clear the meaning of reading
I wonder if my friends have thought about “ Why do we read ” This matter ?
If you don't know why you read , It's probably because of “ Internal volume ”.
See that most people improve themselves by reading , Life changed , Those who don't like reading , Because of anxiety 、 panic , Knowing that others are making progress but they are not making progress, I am very anxious to pick up the book to read .
This is the muddled reading caused by the inner volume .
If we just do it because someone else is doing it , Do it yourself , Most of them won't last long , Because you didn't figure it out .
Lixiaolai has a column called 《 The road to wealth and freedom 》, The subscription volume of this column is very large , Its birth is also very interesting .
Li Xiao, with his current situation , Make money by writing articles , He is hardly motivated . This is true , Because he has long been a man of wealth and freedom .
Where did he get the motivation to write this column ? Li Xiao said that he decided to use the after tax income earned from the column as a scholarship to help college students learn computer knowledge .
When he gave writing a column such great significance , You become very excited , Focus on , Ideas emerge in endlessly . According to his statistics , A piece of 2 A thousand words or so of articles , You can subsidize 100 College students learn computer related knowledge , When I think about it , There is no need for bitter persistence , Writing an article becomes something that cannot be stopped at all .
Li Xiaolai's story has given us a good example , Give something meaning before you do something , The motivation to do things is different , There is no need to insist , It's what you can't wait to do .
Only want to understand why to read , Endow reading with great significance , We will go deep into it , Make reading a natural thing without using willpower .
I read because I want to upgrade my brain , Make yourself “ Be smart ”. Also want to set an example for children , As a parent, I can't always be with them .
But reading can accompany them for a lifetime , When they have any questions, they can look for answers in the book , Books are the outlet of most problems .
I know that the power of example is powerful , Just like I have many examples worth learning and following , An example will serve as a benchmark .
Let yourself from looking up to the example to a little closer to the example , Be seen by example , One day I will stand with my example , Tell her “ Thank you , Guide me all the way .”
This is the meaning of my reading , For yourself 、 For children . What about the friends ?
None of us want to be forced to do something . In my submission Reading should be from the heart , It's active .
Therefore, clarifying the meaning of reading is the first step for us to read effectively .
2、 Thinking has a direction
Reading must be thinking , Only after thinking can we understand , Only when you think clearly will you take action , And make a change .
But reading without thinking is a pain point for most people , Here are three questions that can quickly improve our thinking .
* What does this knowledge point have to do with me ?
Where reading touches us , Most of them are reminiscent of the past , This time should be recorded in time .
I'm reading 《 Before you leave 》 I read a passage in this book :
I don't know from which moment , In the news from my hometown , About which folks or elders “ Death ” Has become the most frequently heard topic .
I made such comments at the bottom of this paragraph :

It is because of this passage that I am connected to myself , And then triggered my feelings . So that I can put the plan of filial piety to my parents on the agenda .
The process of relating to oneself in reading is the process of mobilizing one's own thinking , My own experience is equivalent to getting a kind of verification in the book .
The feelings written will also be a very good example , Very good for writing material , First hand experience is the most touching .
So don't think about the places touched by the reading process , Be sure to write down .
* Have you seen similar or opposite statements in other books ?
This is one of the most common ways of thinking about relevance . Let's start with an example of finding similar statements :
I'm reading Zhou Ling's 《 Cognitive drive 》 Read :
Especially when we can overview the overall situation from top to bottom , When you can see things from a high latitude , The problem of low latitude disappears naturally .
I found that in all the books I read before , So write down everything mentioned in each book .

When you list similar points of view, you will find that , There can be so many different versions of the same point of view , Especially to train one's language organization ability , At the same time, I reviewed my previous knowledge , And deepen the impression .
In addition to similar needs to be recorded , The opposite is also worth noting ,
still 《 Cognitive drive 》 The book says :
Under the influence of modern competitive environment , Most people no longer believe in “ Good wine needs no bush ” This is an old saying , It seems that people are willing to go to the alley to solicit business .
notice “ Good wine needs no bush ” this sentence , The author and a friend of mine have different views , I will draw a line on what causes me to think , Then record your thoughts .

Except for thinking similar 、 The opposite is true , There is also one that you don't agree with , This is also worth noting .
In the reading 《 Onion reading 》 when , See such a sentence :
When I read, I feel that there are important points everywhere , That means the book has no point .
I have different opinions , Therefore, such comments are given :

Disagreeing views , If I can give examples to support my point of view , It is undoubtedly increasing the depth of your thinking .
* Where else can this knowledge point be used ?
After learning, you must ask yourself the most important question : This knowledge , It can also be used anywhere ?
Li Xiao said : Just in case you think of it “ by surprise ” Use the scene , That would make a lot of money , Because the same thing has played a different role in your hands , Of course you are different , It can only be different .
He said that he was able to achieve financial freedom because of a concept he learned in his physics book when he was in school “ Escape speed ” Also called “ Second cosmic speed ”.
Why does a physical concept allow him to achieve financial freedom ? Because he thought that this concept could be used in other places .
Want to get rid of gravity and fly out , Must exceed the speed of the second universe . It reminded him that he must be quick to make money , Because of the financial “ Acceleration of gravity ” Will exceed one's imagination .
Major diseases 、 An unexpected disaster 、 Debt 、 Essential expenses are the acceleration of financial gravity .
If not fast enough , Any financial gravitational acceleration will make you unable to fly , What's more, it is a combination of various financial gravity accelerations .
Li Xiaolai understood this truth in his high school physics class , And many of us wake up only after experiencing the heavy losses of life .
A lot of truth , If you don't think deeply , Will be much slower than others , If you want to reach the same height as others, you have to pay several times more than before .
therefore “ Where else can this knowledge point be used ?” It's a good question , Well used, it will really be like what Li Xiaolai said , Play an unexpected effect .
Pengxiaoliu will talk about how “ Remember knowledge ” It also mentioned : If I encounter a phenomenon , I'll find out what theories can explain it , If you can't find 5 I won't stop this phenomenon .
If you can apply knowledge and theory in multiple scenarios , Then you don't need any memory for the core concept of books , Already had a very deep impression .
Because knowledge is interrelated , The essence of effective learning is to understand and create relevance .
If you only know something in one way , You don't really understand it , The way we know what things really mean depends on how we relate them to what we know .
The process of relevance is to internalize knowledge into the mind , To guide our behavior , And change our lives .
3、 Learn to read about topics
Do you feel this way , Read a lot of books , A lot of lessons , It can be said that I have learned a lot of knowledge , But I just can't use it , You can't call it when you want to use it .
That is because the knowledge we usually learn is an isolated knowledge point , Scattered in our brains .
Like a messy wardrobe , I usually shop for clothes , But I can't clean it up , All the clothes piled up in one place , Sometimes I forget that I still have this dress , Sometimes when you want to wear something , But I couldn't find it for a while .
You can understand it after a careful experience .
So is knowledge , If it's scattered in our brains , It takes time to use it .
Want knowledge to be called out at any time , You have to learn to organize your knowledge , The process of sorting out knowledge is actually the process of building a personal knowledge system .
A common way to build a knowledge system is through topic reading , Topic reading can help us quickly master relevant knowledge in a certain field .
Let's look at the specific steps :
* Starting from the problem , Identify the subject to study
Adult learning should be self-directed , Our current needs are the best opportunities for learning , So ask yourself what problems you want to solve at this stage , Make a list of questions .
Many people don't know why they learn , The first step in building a knowledge system is to clarify our goals , Only in this way can learning focus .
stay 《 How to read a book 》 In the said : In Theme Reading , You and the subject you care about are the basic focus , Not the books you read .
In other words, when reading the topic , Our goal is not to understand the whole book , But to understand what is helpful to our subject in this book .
Sometimes a book may have only one chapter or even one paragraph to help us , Then we just need to understand this chapter or this paragraph , The mission of this book in theme reading is completed .
* According to the subject of the study , Identify the subject book list
Unless we know what to read , Otherwise, you can't read the topic .
But how can we know which books to read ? I've noticed that many people don't know what to read , I always hope that celebrities can recommend books .
Actually , Picking books is also an ability , If you always rely on others , This ability is difficult to form .
Li Xiaolai once said : Asking for a book list from others is the most effective way to gradually degrade your ability to pick books to zero .
Most of us pick things , Everyone has their own criteria , In fact, choosing books is the same thing , Different people must have different standards .
For high-level readers , Their tastes are also tricky , The selected bibliography may not be suitable for low-level readers .
I think books still need to be chosen by myself , We can refer to other people's suggestions .
This is in 《 How to read a book 》 It has been confirmed in :
Look at it from another Angle , Even if you don't have such knowledge , You can still ask someone with this knowledge to help . But you have to recognize one thing , Even if you can find such a person , His advice ended up for you , While helping , Almost all become obstacles .
I seldom ask others for a list when I read , Always know that it is someone else's, not your own , It's like a food that suits other people's tastes , You may not be suitable for .
After making clear the topic you want to know more about , I usually go to Douban to search for key words and find books , There are scores on Douban and others' book reviews , Can play a good reference role .
After choosing a Book , I will go to wechat reading to screen again , Many books can be read on wechat , Look at the catalogue , Browse the chapters of interest , Only when I feel good will I be added to the theme book list .
I still have the habit of accumulating books , For example, after reading a book review that leads to a good impression on a Book , I'll put this book on my collection list , For future use .

To sum up, the way I choose books is usually : First search from your collection list , If you don't search for watercress according to keywords , Further screening in combination with wechat reading , Finally determine your own subject list .
Four or five theme books are usually selected , Read the book list as the theme of this time .
For example, I read this article 《 That's enough reading 》、《 How to read a Book effectively 》、《 Read a Book 》、《 How to read a book 》.
* Overall scanning , Mark the relevant sections
After we bought fourorfive theme books , Conduct a quick scan as a whole .
The purpose is to find out the chapters in each book related to the subject we study , Because the book we chose , It's unlikely that the whole book is related to the subject .
for instance , About “ Thematic reading ” This theme , stay 《 How to read a book 》 It is in Chapter 20 that ; stay 《 That's enough reading 》 Chapter 8 of the book deals with ; stay 《 Onion reading 》 The fifth chapter is related to this .
These related chapters are read through the preface 、 Preface 、 Selected from the directory .
Every book passes 20 You can finish reading in about minutes , Then circle the relevant chapters we want to study .
In the process of reading, you can also see which one you want to read most , You can also mark .
* Determine the framework
Defining a framework means what specific questions you want to know about a topic , It can be listed in detail .
Bring up 3-5 A specific question , That is, the problem to be solved in Topic Reading .
If you have clear and definite questions, you can present them through tables . Similar to the following :

For those who have just read the topic , What should I do if I don't know what questions to ask for a while ?
We can choose our favorite or the most structured book as the framework , Other books supplement this book , Because sometimes we really don't know what details to study , You can use this method .
* Take the question to the book and find the answer
Define the framework , We need to find the answers to the questions in the book to fill these frames .
We may find different methods in each book , There are even some questions that the author has no relevant answers , These are normal .
Because what we care about is not necessarily what the authors will care about .
This is what happens when you look for an answer :

In view of such results, we need to comb and summarize the answers again , Make the answer more perfect .
For repeated, we choose the best or A The answer in , Either choose B The answer in ;
For the one-sided, we choose the answers in several books to complement each other , hold A The answer and B Combine the answers in .
For the conflicting, we need to add applicable conditions to each of them ;
About the purpose of reading , stay 《 Read a Book 》 in , Fandeng said that he favored reading without purpose, that is, free reading , He said he read with a purpose , Often read what's around your comfort zone . Aimless reading will lead you to explore the unknown , Harvest unexpected surprises .
And in the 《 That's enough reading 》 in , Mr. Zhaozhou said that before reading, you should first confirm your purpose , Then choose different books , And use different ways of reading .
What should we do when we see two big guys holding opposite views ?
In fact, after careful deliberation, it is not difficult to find that what they said is reasonable , The object of what Fandeng said about aimless reading is himself , And as a Book teller , The amount of reading is beyond the reach of ordinary people , The amount of reading he has accumulated has reached a certain level , A breakthrough is needed at this time , You can no longer read in the usual way , That will only be like what he said in his own comfort zone .
What Zhao Zhou said about purposeful reading is aimed at the readers who like reading , Many people can't read properly because they don't focus on it , Learn from this and that , In the end, the whole brain is confused , That's why I put forward the idea of purposeful reading .
So you see what they said is right , How to use it specifically ? Let's see what kind of situation we are in , It is like fan Deng who has read all the books , Or is there not so much accumulation in reading ?
Then it is clear at a glance which viewpoint to choose .
After the above thinking and Analysis , We can fill the answers found in the book into the framework of the previous book .
* The last step of Topic Reading : practice .
Through theme reading, we have a wide understanding of the theme of a certain field , But it's not done , Next, we need to test whether the knowledge of filling in the framework is as useful as the author said .
The criterion for measuring the usefulness of knowledge is to focus on yourself , I can use it myself , And what works well is useful knowledge .
Even if a knowledge point is emphasized many times by the author, it is the key point , It's no use to yourself , Don't pay attention to .
After testing, the knowledge can be really retained , We have a relatively complete system for learning a certain aspect .
When you follow the above steps to build your own knowledge system , Learning will be more focused “ Swaying in the midst of a raging storm ”, People say this book is good, so they buy it , That course is very good , Just sign up , But have their own screening ability , Know what you need , The problem to be solved , Will not be easily brought to the rhythm by others .
All your studies will be based on the principle of adding bricks to the knowledge system , Instead of relying on the influence of external factors , In this way, we can avoid the confusion and entanglement of not knowing what to learn , It can also be retrieved at any time when needed .

03. How to read and use
If we master a lot of reading methods , Read a lot of books , I read every book very carefully , But lack of action , Then we 100% Multiply your reading by 0 Our actions still get 0, Life will not stir up any waves .
This situation is even greater than those who do not read , The money we spend on reading 、 Time 、 All your energy was wasted , Think about whether it is a waste .
Li Xiao said : Reading itself is of no value , What is valuable is thinking after reading , The choice after thinking , Action after selection .
Therefore, the ultimate goal of reading is to put it into practice , Action is divided into two situations , One is to learn to use immediately , The other is temporarily unavailable , Share it .
1、 Immediate use
Most people know that the purpose of reading is to use , But many people put reading and using , Clearly , I don't want to use it at all , Finally, I blame reading for its futility .
I have always had the habit of being aware of my emotions , Bought a lot of emotional books, such as 《 Nonviolent Communication 》、《 A world without complaint 》.
Whenever I want to complain about a bad thing , I immediately thought 《 A world without complaint 》 A sentence in , The main idea is “ Complaining won't solve any problems , It will only attract more complaints , It's like kicking a cat .” When I think about it , When you complain, you press the pause button .
This is the practical application , Instead of complaining , Still can't help complaining , It's better not to know .
Many practical books offer very useful methods , All of them can be applied to life immediately after learning , There is no threshold for use , The key is to use awareness .
Only use it , Life will change .
2、 Share with others
* case analysis
There is another way to apply knowledge , That is to help others solve problems .
In my early years, I focused on children's early education , I bought a morning class at home , Serve as the leader of the early education community , At that time, some Baoma often privately wrote me about early childhood education .
I always answer enthusiastically , When answering other people's questions , My thinking has also been reorganized , Become especially clear , The process of communicating and interacting with others , In fact, it is the process of checking and filling the gaps , Will help you continuously improve your cognition .
One thing many people will do after they have made a small success is to carry out consulting services , For example, a certain Planner , So and so Consultant , The purpose is to analyze other people's problems , Make use of what you have learned , Combine theory with practice , And make money by the way .
It's the same when we go back to study , Although we have no ability to carry out any consulting work , But case studies can still be used , Let your knowledge achieve the purpose of flexible use .
Now there are many Q & A platforms , For example, Zhihu Q & A 、 Wukong Q & A , There are many problems every day , If you have something you can solve , You can try it .
In the process of helping others solve problems , It's good for both sides .
* speech
Speech is also a good process of internalizing knowledge , After I joined the wechat group of Zhitang , I saw some speeches organized by the group activities before .
For example, Tong Wei is about 《 Plan the best year 》 Speech 、 Miss Dou said about 《 Zeng guofan 》 Speech , I feel wonderful , This is all for reading and using .
I have found that those who are good at making speeches are people who have a strong ability to learn , They are very confident to show their knowledge freely .
The preparation process of each speech is a process of systematically sorting out knowledge , When you express it in words , You will find that the knowledge seems to grow out of your own body .
That is also a different kind of experience , So once there is a chance to speak , I think we should catch , This is a chance to exercise yourself , For example, the round table discussion in the hall of knowledge , It also belongs to speech , Be able to participate as much as possible .
Speaking is not just a process of using knowledge , It is also a process of accumulating one's influence . The rise of the Internet has given us many opportunities to show ourselves , Speech is one of them .
* Teach others
Teaching is the best way to learn .
You may find it difficult to teach others , Think that there is nothing in life to teach others , It's not .
Whenever I learn a good knowledge , I'll tell my husband on my commute .
For example, I was reading lixiaolai's book recently , I will tell him , Do you know how Li Xiaolai wrote his column on the get ?
Let's start with a question , Arouse his curiosity .
Then tell him that lixiaolai always gives great or even great significance before doing anything , Because he has already achieved financial freedom , The motivation to make money is not that big anymore .
With this topic, we extend to Li Xiaolai's growth environment , What makes such a thoughtful person .
Chatting and chatting, I went to a person's native family , I found that Li Xiaolai's mother played a great role in Li Xiaolai's study .
He mentioned his mother's role in many articles , For example, how to meet a noble person , His mother said that he should make himself a noble man first ;
And when he was at school , His mother's help in mathematics, physics and chemistry .
I also think that I have become someone else's parents now , Be sure to guide your child on key nodes .
If you don't want to share , Maybe I can't think of anything else .
By teaching others , Share with others , You can get feedback 、 Ask questions or even question , All these help us to further think and improve .
* writing
My most recommended way to apply what I have learned is —— writing .
I am the beneficiary of writing , Deepen your thinking in the process of writing , Let knowledge be integrated .
But when it comes to writing, many people find it difficult , I think writing is a very difficult thing . Actually , It is because I have made my writing complicated .
Li Xiaolai is here 《 Make time your friend 》 Writing ability is explained in this book :
mention “ Writing ability ” Not the ability to write novels , Not the ability to write poetry , Not the ability to write a script , Not the ability to write prose , It's just the most basic kind of writing ability —— Write succinctly 、 It works 、 accuracy 、 simple 、 Ability to write specific illustrative and reasoned articles .
It doesn't take much talent to write , As long as the meaning can be expressed clearly according to certain logic .
After reading a book, you can write its book review , The highlights of this book , How does it affect you .
Practice is not just about change in action , Writing also belongs to practice , Write more times , Thoughts will change , The change of thought is not far from the change of action .
When you become a disseminator of knowledge, you will become particularly responsible , Special attention , Put those vague 、 A little knowledge of the content will want to ponder thoroughly .
Writing also helps to test one's reading ability , If you feel that what you write is always superficial , It shows that there are problems in reading at ordinary times , Not reading carefully , Understanding is not deep , Therefore, the thinking is not comprehensive and profound .
If you finish reading a Book , But I can't write anything , It can only mean that you don't understand or understand deeply , This is also a way to test whether you are reading effectively .
The above is what I share about reading from three aspects .
It's no use knowing a good method , The key is to practice , Only when you experience it can you see another world .
Finally, I would like to share with you a passage from fan Deng , He is a man who changes his destiny by reading , Let's see what he thinks of reading .
Pick up your books , Is to re - educate . This school is the most compassionate 、 The most equal 、 Cheapest .
School district rooms are not required , There is no need to find a relationship , There is no need for one-to-one class fees .
What a noble book , It is often priced by its paper rather than its value .
This is a chance for everyone to save .
You missed the famous primary school , It doesn't matter ; You missed the key middle school , No problem ; You regret that you didn't go to college in your life , No problem .
As long as you still have the habit of reading . This school that never closes , Just a few tens of dollars to enter the school , Always open the door to everyone .
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