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Step forward: how to plan long-term dreams and short-term goals

2022-04-06 03:01:36 Knowledge hall

The theme book of our private board this week is 《 Step forward 》.
Through this book, we extend the following 3 Topics :
1 Aware that you want to grow , How to activate psychological energy ?
2 How to plan your long-term dreams and short-term goals ?
3 How to grow quickly with the help of others ?
This paper discusses the second part 2 A question .

Do you often feel exhausted , But it seems that nothing has been achieved ?
Do you want to lie flat , Don't want to take a step forward ?
Why do we often have such a sense of powerlessness , Want to lie flat but unwilling , If you want to move forward, you can't find the direction and target ?

today , I mainly come from 3 Analyze this phenomenon from three aspects , And how to deal with ?

01 The goal is : What do you want ?



There's a little buddy in front D Mentioned a problem that bothered me very much . I made a plan the night before yesterday , But the next day , There are always more important things out of plan that must be prioritized , As a result, every plan cannot be carried out . Day after day cannot be executed , Let her feel that growing up is a very painful thing . in the light of D This phenomenon of , I want to talk about target management with you .
(1) Growth is more painful and more enjoyable
Growth must be accompanied by pain , But growth must not be just pain !

If there is only pain in one thing , No one can hold on . Coins have both sides , There is pain , There must be something that can bring you joy , Like money income 、 Spiritual pleasure 、 Or your satisfaction 、 Fulfillment .

If pain is greater than pleasure , So at this time, we need to think about .
Must growth be only pain ?

If the other side of growth , It can also bring us some benefits , What are the benefits ? Didn't you see it , I still haven't experienced ? And then think about it , How to experience this benefit ?

One can do one thing for a long time , It must be good > Bad , Otherwise he can't do it all the time , This is human nature. . Why didn't you experience this benefit ? Is there a blind spot somewhere ?
(2) What I want ? What is my goal ?
Accept the pain of growth , If you want to take a step forward , You can think about it carefully :
What I want ?
What is my goal ?
How to achieve ?

We only know what we want , To know what to do .
If you don't even know what you want , You may not know what to do at all .

We should ask what I want right now ? Face yourself , Honestly ask yourself , Tell yourself what you want , It's best to express it in detail in language : Depict the scene , What I want is such a thing , I just want to be such a person .

such as , Take looking for a partner , You must clearly ask yourself the following questions .
What kind of partner are you looking for ?
What kind of result do you want to achieve after finding it ?
What value can you offer him ?
What value does he want to offer you ?

What is the goal ?
The goal is what the heart wants , The other side you want to reach .

The goal is a point , At what time and under what circumstances , What do you want ?
such as , Why did you make a short video ? What will the short video look like ? How can you empower your major ?
such as , With procrastination, you want to change . What is "no delay" ? What do you think is procrastination ? What is the state of not procrastinating , What do you do every day , That's the goal .
(3) From the status quo to the goal
What is our current situation ? It's what I have , What is it like now .
Our current situation is on this side of the river , The heart is on the other side of the river .

What we look like now , And imagine the expectation of the heart , It must be different .

If you don't get what you want for the time being , So there is a gap between what you want and what you have now , There must be a gap , This gap is what you lack .

Before you leave and reach your heart , We must think clearly about the following 3 spot :
The first 1 spot : The goal is —— What do I want
The first 2 spot : present situation —— What do I have
The first 3 spot : Drop —— What do I lack

Think about it clearly 3 spot , Then think about what I should do .
If this on the top floor 3 Didn't think clearly at all , Basically, the thinking of the lower level will not directly point to your heart .
This is the first part I share with you , About the goal 、 Status quo and gap .


02 How to plan long-term dreams and short-term goals
(1) ladder OR square ?
What is a ladder ?《 Step forward 》 The first 4 Zhang wrote ,“ Ladder is the most commonly used metaphor for career .” In the workplace , Especially within the system , You can either climb up , Or you can only fall . A lot of people say , Career within the system , You can see your head at a glance . To be frank , Look up , Can only see other people's buttocks . This is a more traditional way to compare career with ladder .

The author prefers to use squares to describe workplace development . Our career planning should not be just step-by-step 、 According to the system 、 Or follow every step others tell you ; Instead, you should create a grid . In your square , You can be self-centered , There are many ways to jump to other squares , This is a way of career development with more possibilities to expand horizontally .

The present , The ladder will limit one of your movements , Squares have more possibilities . Many people know they don't want to do what they're doing right now , Or want to expand more possibilities , however , I don't know if I can ? I don't know if there will be a problem ? Even when you want to grow up , Many people around you will also limit your growth , It's not even appropriate to pour cold water on you . In this case , What should we do ?

(2) Long term goals           
The author in 《 Step forward 》 It is suggested that we should set two goals : A longer-term goal , A short-term goal .

Long term goals , In terms of time, it is very long . In my personal understanding , The author's long-term goal is personal vision and dream , I sum it up as :

The ultimate soul torture —— What I want to be ? You must ask yourself this question .

In the dead of night , A person calms down and thinks , What do you want ? What kind of person you want to be ? No one else wants you to be . Your leader... Not yours 、 Not your child 、 Not your parents waiting , What kind of person do you want to be , It's what you want to be ! This is a vision and dream for the future , That picture is your long-term goal .
(3) Short term goals

Long term goals and visions are too long-term , And it will be hazy , Then we can set a short-term goal . For example 18 Month is the time node ,18 What kind of person do you want to be in six months ? This is called 18 Milestones for the next month .

The core problem is , this 18 In months , What kind of result do I want to achieve , Which grid you can jump to , What kind of efforts can you make for yourself to be ?

Just like we flip the concept of culture , Lifelong learning is a process , Being yourself is the goal you want to pursue all your life . The key is what you want to be ?

Today we will only discuss a very important and relatively short goal ,18 Monthly milestones , there 18 Months are an imaginary number , It can be 1 year , It can also be 2 year , Short term phased goals , We call it milestones . Long term goals and vision , That is, a lifelong goal , The larger , We'll talk about it later .

03 How to achieve milestones ?
(1) How about my personal growth ?
use 《 Step forward 》 In the author's words , When defining short-term goals, we must pay attention to : How about my personal growth ?
The author is talking about the company , We can extend it to our personal projects , You can work for your team 、 For others 、 What value does it provide for this project ?

Take making a video number as an example , You have to think , How about my growth ?
  • Can this thing be a step forward for my future goal ?
  • Do the video Number , Can I expand my influence ?
  • After expanding my influence , Whether it can be more conducive to the possibility of realization and even financial freedom ?


We can also extend to growth value , The pyramid of traditional Maslow's demand theory ( As shown in the figure below ).
  • The bottom layer is physiological needs
  • The second level is security requirements , Including a sense of security 、 Sense of belonging
  • The third level is social needs
  • The fourth level is the need to be respected
  • The top level is the need for self realization .
  • With the improvement of civilization , Maslow's demand theory has now reached a higher level —— Self transcendence .

We can combine Maslow's demand theory , To analyze your short-term goals , Analyze your physiological needs , Security requirements , Social needs , Respect needs , What do you want in terms of self realization ?

If you think this model is a little complicated , We can simplify it to 3 In terms of :
  • Survival , How do I do it ? Like making money ;
  • Sense of belonging , What I'm going to do ? Like my influence 、 Personal brand ;
  • Higher level aspects , Self actualization 、 Self transcendence , Is my growth , What I want to be ?

The above is the second milestone of short-term objectives 1 A question —— Consider your own growth , And what value you can provide to the team and the project .
(2) What skills do I need to learn , To achieve a goal ?
The first 2 A question , In order to achieve your goal , What skills do you need to learn ?
Suggest using SMART Write down the principle according to your own keywords , Including family relationships 、 leadership 、 Think systematically , What do you want to achieve to your satisfaction .

Take making short videos as an example , reflection :
  • Why do it ? Because you want to expand your influence .
  • What is the purpose of expanding influence ? To build a brand .
  • Build a brand why ? Assist my career .
All in all , I hope to use my influence to empower my career , The possibility of eventual realization of cash .


To achieve short-term goals faster and better , I strongly suggest that you must improve your meta skills ( We learn the basic skills of other skills ), It can be improved from the following aspects .

① Efficient learning ability , Better production output

Efficient learning , It's also our idea of flipping culture . All private teachers of flipping culture must master the skill of efficient learning —— How to find your own problems , Targeted 、 Efficient learning . Flipping culture , We have a systematic and efficient learning method , Including reading methods 、 Note taking method 、 Personal knowledge management, etc . You need a system , It's systematic . But more importantly , Know what you want to learn and what you don't want to learn .

② Self management ability , Ensure continuous output

The little friend mentioned , I know I have procrastination , But it's hard to get rid of this procrastination habit , There is always a feeling that the heart is surplus but the strength is insufficient . This is the time , If someone can give you a push , You can probably take a step forward . Procrastination belongs to the category of self-management , You can realize that your habit is bad , You need to improve your self-management ability .

If you want to let yourself appreciate , We must also do a good job in self-management , The deeper motivation of self-management must come from their own internal drive ! When you really want to do something , You'll do , This is the drive of internal drive .

Self management includes time management 、 Target management and so on , It's all skilful , Can learn systematically . Some time ago, the course of time management came out , Including children's time management courses . Time management is done , Procrastination is basically gone , These can help us better manage ourselves , Help to continuously output higher quality self branded products .

③ Systematic thinking ability , Make precise decisions

The ability to think systematically , Can help you make accurate decisions .
Should I come to this private board meeting today ?
Should I write down my goal today ?
Do I want to continue shooting today's short video ?
Shall I write it down today , What value can I offer my partner ?
These are similar to mine 18 What is the relationship between the next month's short-term goals ?
What is the relationship between these and what kind of person I become ?
If you find a connection , Everything you do today , For example, you come to this private board meeting , It's helping you to be a step forward .

④ Powerful psychological energy , Fight frustration and uncertainty

Have the above 3 After two abilities , Another ability is very, very important , It's psychological energy . Including psychological knowledge and social support . Psychologically powerful energy , Can help you , On the way to be yourself , Fight uncertainty 、 Against setbacks 、 Empower your mind .

Combined with the improvement of these meta skills , We can guarantee , Starting today , You can take a step forward , Achieve your 18 A goal of six months ; One more step forward , Move on ; Eventually you may learn through lifelong learning , Be yourself ! There is a system .


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