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Reading sharing: Bachmann's grandma's letter of apology
2022-03-26 00:27:02 【Knowledge hall】
# A novel Love and protection Understanding and forgiveness Cure Parents and children read together
About author :
Frederick · Buckman Swedish columnist 、 Blogger 、 The writer , Known as the king of warm heart novels .1981 Born in , I studied religion in University , But I didn't graduate , Later I worked as a truck driver 、 Columnist 、 Blogger .2012 Published his first work in 《 A man named owie decided to die 》 Make him famous , The novel was translated into 25 Languages , Become an international best seller ,2015 It was adapted into a film of the same name , Nominated for the second 89 Oscar for best foreign language film .2016 In, he published his second novel 《 Grandma's apology letter 》, It's a warm novel . list 10 Months , The total global sales volume exceeded 150 Ten thousand volumes , Copyright sold 40 countries , Almost every bookstore in Europe and America , Continue to occupy... After publication 《 The New York times 》 The bestsellers 50 Zhou . This also makes Buckman 2016 Swedish writer of the year 、 Ranking of American Amazon Writers No.1,2017 The novel was introduced into China for publication in .
Content introduction :
Grandma said to laugh 、 To dream 、 Be different , Life is a great adventure .
The hero of the story is called Aisha , Is a parent divorced 7 A young girl who is years old but looks very mature , Her favorite in this world is grandma 、 Harry Potter 、 Wikipedia . Because it is far beyond the IQ and EQ of its peers , Make her look too special , Therefore, I am often bullied by my classmates . Aisha has a woman with cancer 77 A grandmother who is years old but appears overly lively . Her debut was to dress the snowman and fall upstairs into the garden , Let the neighbors mistake someone for falling off the balcony , Scared the neighbors out . Not only that, she also opened her bathrobe ( naked ) Stand on the balcony and shoot the salesman with a paintball gun , Kai male nurse's oil, etc , All kinds of crazy behavior can be described as countless .
The story begins with , In order to help Aisha forget the bullying on campus during the day , Get out of the hospital at night , Take Aisha into the zoo to see the monkeys , After being found by the police, he resisted the pursuit , Throw a dung ball at the police . Grandma said : If you can't get rid of bad things , Then use more “ Good material ” Go over it . This seemingly abnormal grandmother is Elsa's only friend , And Asha's superhero . Grandma weaves a dream for Aisha 、 Courage 、 music 、 Sad fairy tale world , When she was hurt and scared , Lead her into the fairy tale world and experience adventure stories , To avoid the shock and fear of reality , Rewrite Elsa's bad memory . Protected Aisha's childhood in this way , Brought Asha courage and strength , Grandma's behavior of going her own way , I think I have offended many people around me , So after grandma died , Entrust Aisha to send grandma's apology letter to her neighbors in the way of treasure hunt , therefore 《 Grandma's apology letter 》 The title of the book also comes from this .
With the sending of letters of apology , Aisha slowly made two discoveries . The first discovery was , All the neighbors who used to live in the same building with Aisha , It's all grandma , People and children who have been rescued from disaster or war . The second discovery is , Every character in the fairy tale world woven by grandma , Every hero 、 Villain 、 Princess , It's all the neighbors around Aisha . It turns out that the fairy tale world woven by grandma is another version of the real world . In the process of delivering the letter , Aisha slowly learned to understand 、 Tolerance and forgiveness , Because those around them look lonely 、 strange 、 An unattractive person , It's all because of the great pain and sadness in life , Just what it is now . The author's repeated sentence in the book is : Not all monsters are monsters at first , Some become monsters because of sadness .
Grandma used the fairy tale world to protect Aisha's childhood , In the form of an apology letter , Taught Aisha to grow and tolerate , I think the most important thing is that grandma uses what she can't be understood by most people 、 But it was a wonderful and valuable life that told Aisha , Don't cater to public values , Dare to laugh 、 Dare to dream 、 Dare to be different , Life is a great adventure .
This is a book that doesn't pick readers , No matter what stage of life we are in , Which role to play , Will get different insights from this book . I highly recommend reading this novel with parents and children , Aisha's grandmother knows too well what the children's real psychological needs are , Before grandma died , Aisha's mother represents order , And grandma stood on the opposite side of her mother , Because grandma can break all order , In grandma's world , Anything can happen , What she really cares about is whether Aisha is happy , Not the order in the adult world . Parents should cultivate their children's sense of order , Tell him the truth of life , however ! In the world of children , There should be no sense of order and reason , Real unconditional love for children , It can be reflected in whether we will break the order in the adult world for children's feelings , To protect the child's inner feelings .
After Elsa's grandmother died , Aisha and her mother also know each other better , In which the author describes several plots , The same sentence is used at the end of these plots , For this reason, Aisha will always love her , She means Aisha's mother . When we do something , Our children will decide to love us forever . I share one of the plots with you , It's the last page at the end of the book . Aisha has always been an unsociable child in the class , For this reason, the headmaster often invites Aisha's mother to the headmaster's office . Elsa's grandmother has been there before , Grandma was very uncontrollable and impulsively wanted to throw the globe on the headmaster's head , Aisha's mother, of course, was very angry and stopped , If this happens to us , We are also the one who will stop grandma , Right ? In the last paragraph of this book Another girl came to Aisha's class , His name is Alex , Alex, like Aisha, is the so-called unsociable child in the eyes of the headmaster , This time Alex's mother and Aisha's mother were called into the principal's office again , The headmaster told Alex's mother , Alex “ We must try to be sociable ”, Alex's mother wants to throw the globe in his face , But Elsa's mother took the lead , So , Aisha will always love her .”
The last paragraph and the first paragraph of the book repeat the same sentence , Every 7 Every 12-year-old should have a superhero , And all those who disagree , You need to check your head for any problems . If we were 7 I was not lucky to have my own superhero at the age of , Then let's protect our children , Be their superhero .
Ten sentence excerpt :
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Grandma said to laugh , To dream , Be different , Life is a great adventure .
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If you can't get rid of bad things , Then use more “ Good material ” Go over it .
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Not all monsters are monsters at first , Some become monsters because of sadness .
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When you love someone very much , It's hard to learn to share her with others .
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Sometimes we have to do something dangerous , Otherwise, you won't be a real person .
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Some people are just shit , No one else is to blame , I can only blame the shit itself . Don't step on shit , You can only get... Everywhere .
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The real trap of life is that few people are outright assholes , And almost no one has ever done shit , The difficulty of life is to stay as much as possible in “ Not an asshole ” This side .
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The most powerful power of death is not that it can make people die , It's that those who stay don't want to live anymore .
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It's hard to reason with death , It's hard to let go of the people you love .
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If you choose to be a policeman , You can't choose the object you protect , You must try to protect everyone .
Dark line —— Sleepless continent :
The fairy tale world that grandma wove for Aisha , Is a country called sleepless continent , And Aisha was knighted in the kingdom of miamas on the sleepless continent , Here, Aisha can ride cloud beasts and have swords .
The unit of measure of time ——
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Eternity is the measure of time in the sleepless continent , Time is measured by feeling , It's a feeling of eternity / A little eternity / A dozen little eternity / A completely eternal / Countless completely eternal / A fairy tale forever
6 A secret kingdom ——
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Miploris ( Translated into I mourn ): Store sadness
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Mirivas ( Translated into My dream ): Protect your dreams 、 Dreamcatcher
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Miodacas ( Translated into I dare ): Hometown of courage
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Mimovas ( Translated into I dance ): The birthplace of music
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Mibatalos :( Translated into I fight ): The bravest soldiers grew up here , Destroyed by the final war
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Miamas ( Translated into I love ): imagination 、 A valuable story
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Mipadones ( Translated into I forgive ): Built on the ruins of mibatalos
The story characters ——
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Whine story : Princess's Guardian beast , He was exiled for accidentally biting the princess
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The story of wolf heart : Born in miamas , Grew up in mibatalos , With a warrior's heart and a storytelling soul , Against the shadow in endless war , Returned to the princess after the war
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The story of the princess : The two princes fell in love with Princess of the kingdom of miploris , and Fight for it , Later, the witch stole the treasure that the princess loved most , Since then, I have lived in a sad country , Whistling guarding the gate , It's his duty
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The story of the chosen son : Shadow is a dragon with extreme evil and dark power , Being bitten by the shadow will lose your imagination , The son of choice is mimovas's best dancer , The shadow chases the chosen son ,6 The people of the kingdom of Kings work together to protect the chosen son , For a long time , Until whistling and wolf heart appear from the forest , Force the shadow back into the sea
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The story of the sea angel :100 A snow angel takes part in endless war ,99 A sacrifice , The remaining one is cursed because of nostalgia for the world , Wandering by the sea , Became a sea angel
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A mocking story : Norwin is a prehistoric monster , Bring fear to the sleepless continent , Capture children and devour their future , Climb up “ Tell about the mountain ”, Make avalanches , Keep the story going , Created fear , Later, the two Golden Knights used “ ridicule ” Defeated fear
Open line —— Deliver a letter :
The best stories are never completely true , It's not completely fictional .
Apartments and neighbors ——
Grandma and Aisha's castle ( Apartment )
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The apartment is on the fourth floor Resident
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grandmother :77 year , Once saved , It's an orphan , I was a doctor before I retired , Have been to all kinds of dangerous places to practice medicine , Too lively , Life is a mess ( Sleepless continent witch )
Whine : The divine dog that grandma left to Aisha
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Mom : Hospital leaders , Do things in order , Often quarrel with grandma , Pregnant ( Sleepless continent The Golden Knight )
George : Remarry with mom , Everyone likes him very much , Except for Aisha and grandma
Aisha :7 A 12-year-old girl whose parents divorced , Remarry with your mother , Harry Potter 、 Wikipedia , Different from children of the same age and often bullied , Grandma is her only friend
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The apartment is on the third floor Resident
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Britt Mary :60 How old , Full time annoying , In fact, she just wants others to pay attention to her , Take care of your mother as a child ( Sleepless continent Princess )
Kent : Britt Mary's husband , ALF's brother , entrepreneurs , Almost never go home , Derailment , Want to get the apartment to sell for money ( Sleepless continent prince )
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A woman in a black dress : Always wear black skirts , With white headphones , social phobia , Always pretending to be on the phone , Make others think she's busy , It's actually talking to yourself , Psychological consultation teacher , Drunkard , Lost her husband and two sons in the tsunami ( Sleepless continent Sea angel )
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The second floor of the apartment Resident
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Lenat : I love coffee
Maud : Love baking cookies , They are very easygoing
Samantha : Bichon frise
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ALF :“ Abuse Knights ”, taxi driver , It always looks angry , When I was young, I was with Britt Mary , Be a soldier , Break up after cheating ( Sleepless continent prince )
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The first floor of the apartment Resident
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Sick boy : Leonard and Maud's grandson , Like dancing ( Sleepless continent The son of the chosen )
The boy's mother : It's always missing , They're avoiding their child's violent father ( Sam , Be a soldier , Drug , Longing for war , Sleepless continent shadow )
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The monster : Never during the day , There is a scar on his face , Experienced war , There is a serious obsession with cleanliness , And Sam are comrades in arms and good friends , Save him from the war ( Sleepless continent Wolf heart )
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The basement
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The public lounge ( For the residents' meeting )
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The content of the apology letter and where it was found ——
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Letter to mom : I hope to forgive her in this bad mother , When I was a child, I left her to work ( A letter from grandma to her mother in person )
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A letter to the monster : I hope he can protect Aisha , Protect the castle ( Apartment ), Grandma saved him from the war ( A letter from grandma to Aisha )
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For a woman in a black dress : I hope to forgive her for not saving her two sons from the tsunami ( The letter was found in grandma's car )
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Letters to Lynette and Maud : Sorry for saving their son sam , She was not sure whether he was worth living ( The letter was found on the grave of the two sons of the black skirt woman )
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A letter to the sick boy and his mother : Sorry, I can't continue to protect them , I hope they and Aisha trust each other ( The letter came from Maud )
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A letter to ALF : Sorry to lose his electric screwdriver and other things ( The letter was found in grandma's wardrobe )
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A letter to Britt Mary : Apologize for what she did to her , Tell her Kent doesn't deserve her , Mary deserves better ( The letter was found in the stroller downstairs )
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A letter to Aisha : Sorry for her leaving , I want her to protect the castle ( Apartment ), Protect friends , Grow up well ( Mary found it in the dryer in the laundry room )
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